I have been mulling over whether to write about something crappy that happened, and i figured i might as well....

i have reason to believe that new guy's roomate is cheating on his girlfriend. this has caused many a heated conversation with new guy because i believe firmly in the girl code, while he firmly believes in 'don't ask, don't tell'.... meaning: i feel extremely saddened and upset over this development and new guy basically gives a shrug, and 'it's none of our business'.

EXCEPT it sort of becomes someone else's business when it's under your nose.

Which brings me to this question:

does new guy's indifference stem from

a) he doesn't think its a big deal
b) he really doesn't want to get involved in other people's drama the way i apparently am drawn to it like rupaul to disco
c) he is trying not to throw his bro under the bus.... bro code?
d) he himself is cheating and doesn't want to continue to talk about this infirmary topic

i discussed this with a friend because it is causing me to loose my cool. and it boils down to i need to trust him. if his friend is a piece of shit, i can't assume the law of transference.

i am beginning to learn that with girls, you speak up at any noticeable flaw.
with guys, you pound it out and turn the other cheek.

updates to come i guess....

oh, and don't worry, i casually mentioned that i would cut his balls off if he does the same.